You know some kids would go to their friends and ask, would you like to be my friend? That might sound cute. But if an adult does this, this is just absurd and desperate. Besides, it won’t work. Therefore, never beg someone to be your boyfriend or ask someone to have a one night hookup with you. You need to be the one whom he cannot resist from. Okay, here is what you should do if there is someone you are interested. First, don’t act so desperate and needy. Heads up and show your friend finder how attractive you are. Never act like an easy girl or show him that you would do anything for him. Being good is really the least useful way to attract someone. I know you might be lack of security and you feel that you are pretty fragile. But do have confidence in yourself and do know your value. For gods sake, stop asking him you are pretty or not. If he chooses you, then yes and believe it, he thinks you are gorgeous. If you have more confidence, he will like you more.
Do not overdress
Relax and loose it up. Do not tear your whole closet up side down just for a date or one night hook up. You know, if he likes you, he will even if you wear a simple while shirt and a jean. You would die to meet you and go out with you. But of course, dress yourself carefully would make yourself look irresistible and amazing, but don’t try too hard. Your dressing will give you away your effort. Although, you do need to know that if you wear too little, you may seem slutty. Needless to say, your heavy makeup, such as smoky eyes and blood-red lip may seem a little scary and intimidating. You may want to prevent that from happening. So, what should you wear? Maybe a simple and elegant dress with a light makeup would do the job. Remember, be spontaneous and natural. If you are going to an opera, you can dress accordingly, but if you are going for a casual date, don’t be too exaggerate.
Wear the wrong lipstick
If you ask me, nothing is more cloying than seeing a woman with heavy lipstick on her lips. I wouldn’t want to kiss her. I love women. I love them all. But for real, I, as many men, would have second thought if I were to kiss a girl with oily lips as shiny as the sun. There is nothing wrong with wearing lipstick, but just never too much. I know many girls love to wear lipsticks to make themselves look more dashing. But there are some products that can have negative impact on your whole image. Also, pls choose that that suits your character. I know some girls cannot wear blood-red lipstick while some look amazing with that color. Find a color that suits you.